Learning Negotiation From The Young: Picking The Best Strategy For Your Sales Negotiations.

Have you ever tried to negotiate with a 2 year old?

Were you surprised with their negotiation skills?

Well, my son is now almost 2 and half years old and has suddenly discovered that he has a will - a very strong will at that. Typical of children at this stage, he is far more concerned with getting what he wants than with executing his mother or father's wishes.

It appears to me that as children we tend to be assertive rather than accommodating in our interaction with others. We are only interested in satisfying our own needs and wants rather than satisfying the needs and desires of others around us.

It is only as we age that we learn the world does not in fact revolve around us and that we have to fit into the world in a responsible and positive way. We learn that we can not only do as we wish but also have to think about the rights, feelings and desires of others.

This made me think about the 5 fundamental negotiation strategies and how you can use them to support the achievement of your sales negotiation goals.

1.Competitive negotiation

This is a style of negotiation that is primarily assertive and concerned only with your own needs, desires and goals.

2.Accommodating negotiation

This is a mode of negotiation that is primarily focused on the needs, desires and goals of your counterpart whilst ignoring your own needs. Sales training seminars often teach this negotiation approach as the most appropriate strategy.

3.Compromising negotiation

Probably the best known of all negotiation strategies. This is a mode of negotiation where you meet your counterparts in the middle. You get some of your needs, wants and goals met and you reciprocate for your counterpart.

4.Collaborative negotiation

This is a style of negotiation where you try to satisfy all of the needs, wants and objectives of your counterpart and they reciprocate.

5.Avoiding negotiation

This is a way of interaction where you do not regard negotiation as the best method to attain your targets.

The critical factors which will determine which of the above strategies should be in your negotiations is to answer the following 3 questions:

a.How important is an ongoing relationship to you?

If the relationship is critical, then you will not be able to be only competitive, you will have to at least compromise with your counterparts. If you do not satisfy the requirements of your counterparts, then it is not likely that a meaningful relationship will develop.

b.How many alternatives are available to you?

If you have many alternatives available, you can afford to be more competitive. On the other hand, if you have no alternatives, then you will be forced to be more accommodating.

c.How much time is at your disposal?

If you have a lot of time available, then you can certainly be more competitive. The less time available to you, the more accommodating you will have to be.

As you can see, it is important to ask yourself these 3 questions before you start negotiating so that you can select the approach most suited to the situation at hand rather than just following a negotiation strategy based only on your preference.

It is also important to remember that you should be flexible in your approach. You may want to amend your strategy as new information becomes available during your negotiations.

Why It Is Imperative To Create Relationships In Order To Grow Your Home Business
Attraction marketing these days is all about relationships. The concept of attraction marketing has become exceptionally popular because it focuses on just that, creating valuable relationships, giving something not just simply trying to sell something. Reciprocity is of utmost importance, giving to receive is absolutely the key here :)

Private Trainers: Important Business Companions To Develop Your Career
When personal coaches sign a client, they do not promise or guarantee that the client will reach certain goals or attain a certain level in their career. They are also clear about not putting time frames on client goals on their own.

Business Coaching And Hrm: Significant Aspects To Get Better Output From Employees
At first, let's have a look at the benefits to hiring business coaches. A business coach is a person who specializes in helping a firm or business person increase productivity or profits. This is done by coaching specific people in an organization to develop better management styles and business relationships.

The Merchant Account Market, Using Merchant Warehouse And The Amount Of Support Necessary
Merchant accounts are very complex and can be much more expensive than they first seem. Read this article to find out how to avoid the pitfalls.

Don't Lose Cash On A Card Merchant Account For Your Company.
The merchant account marketplace can be very complicated. Read this article to find out what you need to know.

Considering Methods To Find The Best Merchant Processing For Your Business
Choosing a merchant account can actually be a tricky business. Read this article to find out how to get the best companies.

Taking A Look At The Lowest Priced Merchant Account Providers For Your Own Requirements?
Looking For cheap merchant account processing? If you are then you'll know it's not easy to find. Read this to see the best methods to get it done.

Superior Quality And The Low-Priced Pocket Folders
The high demand of folders has made pocket folders a common product in the use. We can easily find them in many places. They are used extensively in schools and colleges. They are used heavily in offices.

More Articles

Blogroll

Home | Sitemap | Contact Us | Privacy Policy | Terms Of Service

Copyright © 2006 - All Rights Reserved.