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Bad Boy Compared To Good Boy - Does Attraction Have Something To Do With Being A Bad Boy Vs A Nice Guy?
Fine, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" lose out and the 'bad boys" interest women - but I don't think it is always true.
At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy versus a nice guy.
I feel there are other personality vectors involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.
Bad boys tend to be less shy, but also they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the fact that a guy is bad.
I personally do not use the "bad boy" method when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy catch and women can tell that easily when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how beautiful they are, and most women don't have any idea as to whether I am keen on them or just being nice.
That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I like them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - prefer that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.
Girls like guys who are interesting and unique. Attractive girls don't find boys who tell them how beautiful they are to be exceptional. But a guy who has a pleasant conversation with them without stating a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both interesting and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also remember that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking woman may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how beautiful she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a culture of perfect gentlemen, might very well find a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but crude and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be a rare interesting and unique find.
You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to define who that someone would be and then try to expand how you would meet women like that. So no matter if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and unique to the women you encounter and you will be victorious.
One of the hardest things to learn in life is that no matter what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly well-matched to you. Even if you are boring there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the party.
The problem is people who don't admit themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't attract anyone. Now if you just believe in yourself for who you are and act the way you basically are, you will find that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will find a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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